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Control or protection?

In the land of boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, and relationships there seems to be a few blurred lines. Loving beyond boundaries is one of them. One that has sprung to mind is the difference between control and protection. At the same time, most people often get sidetracked when they fall in love so sometimes trying to tell the difference in a relationship of the others intentions. These are proven to be difficult. A difference between someone who is trying to control you and one who wants to protect you are: Control Control isn’t about freedom. It’s about keeping bird in a cage and trying to stop it flying. Is treating a loved one as if they have no rights and they are in charge of them. Authority over one in order to give oneself the boost by having someone beneath them. Trying to physically stop you doing things you enjoy doing…

A secret to self esteem

It’s critical the impact we have on how we think or feel about ourselves. Our self esteems entails us access to our soul, where we need to be in sync at all times. Without this, we could no longer be able to fulfil our true life purpose .Self esteem is our emotional self assessment of what we think of us as subjects. Many so we aim to feel sexy or beautiful.  I’ve come to know that these states are stages that tend to wear off eventually. A feeling we should all aim for is something which works for me. It’s the feeling of lightness. Around us, are examples of how we should aim to look and feel in order to better our life? We are shoved with information about how the outside should look. But as times moves on, there is more exposure in making us feel better reversing that…